Life, Marriage, Relationships, Singleness, Uncategorized

Enough with Cliquey Church Social Groups: Why we Need to be Intentional in Creating Community at Church

A few weeks ago we were visiting a couple from our church who have a young baby. As we were talking a sad reality came to light. It seems that social connections at church are largely determined by the presence of children or one's marital status.

dating, Guys, Relationships, Singleness, Uncategorized, Waiting

To the ladies in waiting…

I recently read an article by a man on a popular Christian magazine site giving advice to the ladies in waiting. To be honest I thought his advice was a lame excuse for men choosing to act like adolescents and waiting for a woman to fix their problems. I fear this sends a message to women that men have pretty much just given up on maturity and you must take the lead. To this I say wrong! Please don't settle for a man child, because real, godly, mature men still exist.

Relationships, Singleness

Thoughts on Singleness: How I Conquered Feeling Lonely, Unwanted and Not Good Enough

I write a lot on this blog of marriage and my experiences being married. I write about this topic because it's relevant to my life at this point. However, before this current season I spent a lot of time being single. I've written a few posts about those days: Just Wait, When Everyone Else is Getting Engaged and Encouragement for Single Women. Although those were not the most favourite or preferred times in my life, they were necessary and one lesson I learned was to be content on my own.

Just Wait: Learning to wait for God's best
Life, Relationships, Singleness, Waiting

Just Wait

Good things don’t come easy or fast. You must wait for them and seek them out.

Life, Singleness

Are You Really Content?

We are all trying to convince each other we're content by saying: “I'd love to be dating but, i'm good right now I'm not looking for a boyfriend God will bring me my prince charming I'm just really content with my life I’m too busy with school, this would not be a good time to… Continue reading Are You Really Content?

Relationships, Singleness

When Everyone Else is Getting Engaged

Within the past two years it seems I’ve know a lot of couples who’ve gotten married or engaged. (Just today I found out about two young ladies at church that had recently gotten engaged). This is serious, people aren’t just dating anymore. I think I could’ve handled dating. Marriage is a huge step, it’s almost mind-blowing to me. Most of these couples are in their early twenties or late teens. It just seems almost preposterous to me, especially when there are virtually no potentials on my horizon.

dating, Relationships, Singleness

Encouragement for Single Women

A lot of times I feel very discouraged that I haven't met the right guy or have never been in a relationship. Especially when I see other couples holding hands, working out at the gym together or at a party. It's hard not to feel sad and lonely. When I'm feeling down I try to remember these tips: